Once when I was younger there was a girl who liked me and of course I didn’t like her back. There was one specific incident that I remember that made me entirely angry.
The incident had happened after a group of us had hung out. The girl had been feeling down that day due to other things (what I can only assume to be piled on top of my lack of interest in her), and eventually broke down. Instead of asking me if I had anything to do with her episode, her friends instinctively asked me “What did you do?” with a sort of death glare. Now I’m not a saint, but I have never in my life purposefully tried to cause emotional harm to another person. And although I don’t hold any grudges against those friends, I wish they had at least apologized to me.